{"id":3083,"date":"2022-07-31T17:15:05","date_gmt":"2022-07-31T10:15:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tretuky.com\/?p=3083"},"modified":"2022-07-18T16:16:05","modified_gmt":"2022-07-18T09:16:05","slug":"dieu-con-cai-mong-cha-me-thau-hieu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tretuky.com\/dieu-con-cai-mong-cha-me-thau-hieu\/","title":{"rendered":"8 \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u<\/a> nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay cho r\u1eb1ng \u201ctr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u\u201d nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m t\u01b0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i, l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. C\u00f9ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00f4ng tin chi ti\u1ebft \u1edf b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft sau \u0111\u00e2y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

8 \u0110i\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u<\/h2>\n

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Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 d\u1eb7n th\u00ec con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang.\u00a0Trong m\u1eaft cha m\u1eb9, con c\u00e1i d\u00f9 bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 che ch\u1edf.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ri\u00eang mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb con th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn r\u1ea5t nhanh, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 tin.\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cho con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3.\u00a0V\u1eady con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe con<\/h3>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con kh\u00f4ng sai, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn cho r\u1eb1ng con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf lu\u00f4n th\u1eafc m\u1eafc t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng nghe m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, cho m\u00ecnh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch.\u00a0V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang n\u00f3i \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.\u00a0Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 nghe th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i nghe v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1eeb con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khi con b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m v\u00ec qu\u00ean b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng con l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi.\u00a0Th\u1ef1c ra, nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, con c\u1ea7n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 an \u1ee7i, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i la m\u1eafng.\u00a0Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nghe con k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00eam qua con th\u1ee9c khuya h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ng\u1ee7 qu\u00ean tr\u00ean b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc n\u00ean s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau con \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean v\u1edf \u1edf nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1eafng nghe con gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho con hi\u1ec3u, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c cho tr\u1ebb.\u00a0c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, tr\u00e1i \u00fd v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh con b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h3>\n

\u201cSao em A \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 8 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 con ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 7,5?\u201d; \u201c\u0110\u1ebfn m\u00e0 xem c\u00e1i B v\u1eeba h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, sao m\u00e0 ngoan th\u1ebf\u201d; “Con ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi C, nh\u01b0ng sao con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng n\u00f3.”<\/p>\n

So s\u00e1nh con m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u201ccon nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201chuy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i\u201d c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ch\u1ea1nh l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 con m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9, v\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i so s\u00e1nh con m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i mong b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1eabn u\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng, bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa<\/h3>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c nhau.\u00a0V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 15 tu\u1ed5i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc ch\u01a1i guitar, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tay c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec3m tra, m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 ngay l\u00e0 do t\u00f4i qu\u1eady ph\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i n\u00ean c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o m\u1edbi g\u1ecdi. Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n nghi ng\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a con, cho r\u1eb1ng con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng, m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

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V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i mong b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00fang nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.\u00a0Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u201cT\u00f4i tin b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n\u201d v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.\u00a0D\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd hay b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

D\u1eabu bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n khen con v\u00ec s\u1ee3 con t\u1ef1 \u00e1i nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n qu\u00fd h\u01a1n ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xung quanh c\u0169ng v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, c\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady hay kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0m ti\u1ebfu xung quanh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n

\u201cCon g\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i m\u1eb7c v\u00e1y h\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi xinh\u201d, \u201ccon trai ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng\u201d, \u201ccon ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m b\u00e1c s\u0129 m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d v\u00e0 bu\u1ed9c con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u01a1i, d\u00f9 con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng con l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m con t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi sinh n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u con nh\u1ea5t, bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t cho con. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u con mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u00e9 y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb.\u00a0D\u00f9 l\u1edbn hay nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u0103n g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng tranh c\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c con<\/h3>\n

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T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u.\u00a0Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e3i v\u00e3, x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m nhau, d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n h\u1ebft, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tan t\u00e0nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 ng\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tranh c\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i.\u00a0Ngay khi tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn cao tr\u00e0o, c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng l\u1eddi x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e9m \u0111\u00e1, d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u00f4 t\u1ee5c th\u00ec c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i ngay.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e3i v\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tranh lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u0103n minh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong ti\u1ebfng cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf nhau, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 suy ngh\u0129, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\u00a0Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00edt n\u00f3i, l\u1ea7m l\u00ec ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y, \u1edf nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u, gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e3i v\u00e3, thi\u1ebfu h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng m\u1eafng m\u1ecf con c\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i<\/h3>\n

Tr\u00e1nh la m\u1eafng, m\u1eafng m\u1ecf hay tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t con \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec7n nay.\u00a0Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd r\u0103n \u0111e, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u00f3ng h\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i xung quanh, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ai.<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb con mau qu\u00ean h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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Vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00e1m g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.\u00a0\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xem nh\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb mong \u0111\u1ee3i cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n cho ch\u00fang.\u00a0H\u00e3y tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb v\u00e0 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 thay v\u00ec l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn con thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/h3>\n

M\u1ed7i khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u mang v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 khoe v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1, th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i \u201cmay m\u1eafn\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u0111\u1ea7y ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fang, d\u1ec5 nh\u01b0 \u0103n k\u1eb9o\u201d.\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u00a0Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con l\u00e0m ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con.\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 9 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f4n v\u0103n, em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp, nh\u01b0ng m\u00f4n to\u00e1n em ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 7 \u0111i\u1ec3m.\u00a0Thay v\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, tr\u00e1ch con h\u1ecdc k\u00e9m m\u00f4n to\u00e1n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft h\u00e3y khen con h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t m\u00f4n v\u0103n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y con c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t \u1edf m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u mong mu\u1ed1n, s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y.\u00a0\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n trong m\u00f4n to\u00e1n, tr\u00e1nh v\u00ec qu\u00e1 y\u00eau th\u00edch m\u00f4n v\u0103n m\u00e0 b\u1ecf b\u00ea m\u00f4n to\u00e1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

D\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con<\/h3>\n

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D\u00f9 c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n v\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f9ng nhau chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129, nh\u01b0ng trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n.\u00a0C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n v\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n th\u00ec con c\u00e1i m\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c g\u1eafn k\u1ebft c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac em c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng ai c\u0169ng b\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd \u0103n c\u01a1m c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e8m nghe.\u00a0Th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1ec7t, em c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y ra xoa b\u00f3p, chia s\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i g\u1eedi em \u0111i h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i b\u1eadn \u0111i l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y vi\u1ec7c kia, c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111i ch\u01a1i hay ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i mong cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n

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